If you think your email about how misguided or immature or selfish or wrong-minded or vapid or stupid or short-sighted I am is going to make me see the light, think again. Consider, perhaps, that your opinion might not be the only and best one out there. That maybe I've actually put a little thought into this. And that my choices don't diminish yours (and if they do, yikes for you). Have all the babies you want. Just leave me out of it.

Seriously, some random stranger's advice, no matter how thoughtful and articulate, isn't going to suddenly turn me into a different person. Do us both a favor and go play with your kid instead of wasting your time preaching at me.